
Saturday, February 07, 2004
pre-marriage relationships, marriage and divorce...
MarkSae, Da-jie Bid Goodbye at 11:26 PM i.S. t.h.i.S. t.h.e. e.n.d. o.R. t.h.e. S.t.a.R.t.
what is BGR for, or rather the courting period, well its for couples to know one another better, in their quarrels, joys and seperations. in other words to know if they are really meant for each other, to spend the rest their lives with each other. however, i find courtship really unnessecary for this time and age. well for a simple fact, if u cant stand each other, or aft 3 or 4 quarrels, just get a divorce, well it simly just shows itself true in the figures in divorce rates going up.
marrige, if i say now that its meant for a life time, people will start to mock me, wah u damn old fashion man... then please for goodness sake and not using the name of God in vain, CHANGE UR BLOODY MARRIAGE VOW.. maybe to something this:
i, (name), vow to only look after you in rejoycing and in health, in sickness maybe. but will not tolerate ur nagging and will only wanna quarrel with you twice, maybe a lile more, of u dare turn against me, i'll immiediatly divorce you, don't be too pushy or naggy too.. but in all else, i'll love you to the end of maybe our marriage [(not life)*under your breath*]...
with the help of god.... i do...
this may really help a lot.. cool eh? why not. well divorce one the psychological side only proves one thing, young people nowadays aren't committed, they think they are, but they are wrong, they know have this leway out, if they cannot tahan oready, just get a divorce, way waste so much effort on trying to salavge this relationship! "oh i tried my best, but s/he still is an idiot!" well all i can say is that ur courting period sucked big time... or u din't try hard enough, if s/he did love you enough, and if u love tht person enough, you'd go all out to try and make that person's life better, not the other way around. many a times ina relationship, they tend to turn selfish, think of what they want first... FREEDOM... JOY... all the good things..
when u dun get what u want, and just cant stand it any longer... divorce, so people just dun have patience, determination, committement. and this only comes to show that these people can't go far in their establishment of career and other things. they lack the x factor....
well what happened yest, horrendous... its the camera again.. thats the other root of all evil.. LoL... ok ok.. no lah.. guessed u al read it in the other blogs.. so dun waste my page here for unhappy things that are not worth mentioning liao.. :D
well but aft that my dad did me and my friends a great favor, he asked me to go home to bathe and would drive me down. so i din stink anymore, and wasnt that late.. but still late lah.. i'm so sorry all.. din mean to give u guys a black face and that look.. hehe.. but was a lile irritated and really tired... sorry sorry.. well and the event was really refreshing, really really refreshing... i want more of it.. haiz..
i want more of God.. i want God.....
well well.. and today ok... wanted to slp in oso cannot.. sian.. but nvm.. went to aunt's plc as usual.. hmmm.. nothing much lah...
well can any1 help me with installation of music into my blog.. yar.. and does anyone have a copy of the sch rally? sji.. i wanna hear it man.. really miss it..
ok gtg help me godbro search some stuff... hehe.. he so cute.. cannot dun help.. hehe..
nitez.... dun slp too early..
God bless
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